Bowlby
fear of being alone which drives us toward others
working models of others
expectations on how others can be expected to react
working model of self
how we expect ourselves to feel and behave
2 lessons from early experiences
mary ainsworth
strange situation study
anxious-ambivalent
inconsistent caregiving
-vigilant when mom is present, upset when not
avoidant
rebuffed repeatedly when trying to get care
-don’t reveal stress but heartrate goes up, ignore moms return
secure
confidence in themselves and caregivers
-greet mom happily, easily soothed, actively explore