the 6 C’s of Caring
compassion, competence, confidence, conscience, commitment, comportment,
compassion
sensitive to pain and brokenness in others. we all have it. a quality of presence that allows one to share with and make room for the other
competence
ask good questions, knowledge, judgement, skills, energy, experience and motivation required to respond adequately to demands of professional responsibilities
confidence
self belief about your ability tp help others, sense of security and trust.
conscience
morals, ethics, self awareness, grows with experience.
commitment
loyal, committed to providing good care. convergence between desires and obligations and by the deliberate choice to act in accordance with them
comportment
how you present yourself, look and act. use of dress, language and personal bearing to communicate care and respect for the dignity of both the patient and the nurse
caring process
C: connect with client
A: appreciate the clients situation
R: resend to clients needs
E: empower the client to problem-solve collaboratively
empathy
is grounded in the acknowledgement of death and the celebration of life and rooting for each other to flourish and be. it is based on our frailties and imperfections
when to listen with empathy
sympathy
feeling sorry for another situation
empathy
having a sense of what another persons situation is like. need to actively listen and respond with understanding in order to express empathy
what we are here for as nurses with empathy
when should you not show empathy….
if patient is depressed, suicidal or intoxicated
identifying feelings
clarify and restate
facilitating empathy
formula response
you feel ____ because ______
rephrase to not sound so mechanical